Words are the tools of relationships having the right words in the right moment can create a beautiful response with your partner last week my wife said something to me and the moment she said it. I was like.
Oh she got me, she got me good. I could feel my love response increasing just because of the way she asked me with this particular phrase. Today i’m, going to share with you four words that can trigger a man’s, love response check it out:
Now i’m going to share with you the phrase that my wife gave me in just a moment, but first it’s, important to understand that men have certain mental triggers that trigger our love response. One of those mental triggers is accomplishment.
Now you might be asking. Why does accomplishment a trigger a love response in men, because every man has the desire to feel masculine when we feel masculine we feel sexy, we feel powerful. We we feel this overall good sensation.
That comes over our body when we feel masculine accomplishment triggers our masculine energy. When we feel like we’ve accomplished something that triggers our masculine energy, we feel powerful, we feel sexy and we feel good.
So when you invite us to do something for you in a way in which we feel like we’ve accomplished something that naturally triggers our masculine response helps us feel powerful, sexy and good, and we attribute those positive feelings to you.
It evokes our love response for you, so here’s, the phrase that my wife shared with me. There are four words inside this phrase, see if you can pick out which four words it was that triggered my love response.
My wife says: hey babe. I’m, really tired of feeling cooped up with covid. Will you take me on a date night where we can get some sushi and eat it on the beach which of these four words triggered my love response? Can you see them? Do you know which ones they are they’re right here? Will you take me, will you take me? Is such a powerful phrase that ignites the masculine love response in a man? Why? Because will you take me gives him the leadership role in that moment.
Will you take me, gives him a mission to accomplish something that he can deliver happiness through to you? It is a very, very powerful response. Will you take me now there’s? Two specific nuances to this that i want to share with you in just a moment, but i know that having these phrases can really empower you in your love life.
Take this topic to a whole, deeper level, so notice. Two things we want to talk about about. Will you take me number one is well before we talk about those. I really want to say. I know some of you are watching this going.
I don’t need a man to take me. Why do i need a man to take me? Why can’t? He just join me or i can do it myself so notice this. You can do it yourself. You don’t need a man to take you. You can have him just join you you can, but if you do that, you miss out on an opportunity to trigger his love response based on his hard wiring there’s, an opportunity to create extra chemistry, extra desire with each other.
You know you don’t need him to take you. You’re, an empowered woman. You’re choosing to allow him to take you. So any objection in your mind about oh that disempowers, you that puts you in the in the submissive or any of that is completely rubbish.
No, it’s. Not you’re, an empowered woman and you’re. Choosing him to take you, you’re, choosing to give him this opportunity to serve you. So now, two nuances in how you say this phrase number one: you notice that my wife, didn’t say: can you take me? Can you is interesting, can you actually in a very subtle way, questions his ability? Can you take the garbage out? Can you can you take me, can you can you really can you? Can you take me to the beach? Can you take me on a date night? It suddenly questions his abilities.
Will you requests his abilities? So will you is you believe in him you know he can and you’re requesting his ability to serve you in that moment. Will you take me that’s, nuance number one don’t say: can you replace it with? Will you and it will have an even deeper impact in him? The second nuance is the word me notice can’t? Will you take me, will you take me she doesn’t say, will you take it? Will you take the garbage out sure he can he’ll, take the garbage out, will you take this to the grocery store sure? Will you take this to the post office? Sure, will you take the kids to school sure he can do those those things will you take? It is a chore right, but when you add the word you it becomes a cherished moment he cherishes the moments of.
Will you take me, he’s, going to cherish those moments so next time you’re with your man. Use the words. Will you take me and notice the love response that happens, make sure it’s, something that he can deliver, make sure it’s, something that will ignite happiness in you and when you celebrate him and honor him for how he’s serving you, you will feel him puff up become even more masculine and he will attach that good masculine love feeling to you.